Sent, Seen, Felt

online and content · ritual

Before every send, review your last one: what you sent, who clicked and replied, and whether they felt what you meant.

The idea

Most marketing gets sent aimlessly: stuff for the sake of stuff. In my coaching we gave members one tiny habit to fix that: never send anything until you've looked at your last send. Three questions, judgment-free. Over time you send fewer things that feel inauthentic, and your marketing has a purpose.

How to do it

Anchor it to a habit you already have: "Before I send anything, I'll quickly look at my last send." Then check:

  1. Sent. What was the last thing I sent? Only the last one. Don't go fishing.
  2. Seen. Who clicked and replied? What was my connection rate?
  3. Felt. What responses did I get, and did people feel what I was trying to convey?

Then decide: if people didn't connect, maybe don't send that kind of thing again. If they loved it, maybe send it to more people.

Example

SSF pairs naturally with sending in small waves. Send to 25 people, and run SSF on that wave before the next 25 go out.

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By Zvi Band. Newsletter: Your Network Starts with You. Book: Success Is in Your Sphere.